Jace Weissleder [October 15, 2022] ki tisa
Shabbat shalom!
And thank you -- for coming to my Bar Mitzvah.
It's been a long journey to get here, and I really appreciate those
who have traveled from near and far to be here in this special
moment.
Six months ago I started to work on my Torah portion. I was
really struggling back then, I was always thinking to myself...
“How in the world am I going to learn Hebrew, and get all of
this down before October??”
But here we are today, all gathered together!
I am very proud of myself for working this hard, and pushing
myself above and beyond for this day.
My torah portion that we read this week as this Shabbat falls
during the festival of Sukkot, is called ki tisa, and is about how
Moses went away for 40 days.
Many people got worried, so they built a golden calf and started
worshiping it. When Moses came back from Mt. Sinai, he and
G-d felt betrayed and forgotten, they were very angry and
Moses broke the tablets of the ten commandments.
A little later G-d and Moses forgive the israelites. G-d made
two new tablets and gave them to Moses.
When I was studying my Torah portion, it made me think... why
did Moses respond in the way he did? I understand why Moses
and G-d were angry -- but I don't think the way that they
responded was appropriate at that moment.
For instance, in chapter 32 verse 10: “My anger may blaze forth
against them and that I may destroy them,” says God -- and so
he did.
“Why would G-d and Moses act the way they did?”
Personally, I would have not acted this way, I would be mad but
I wouldn’t want to take my anger out on the Israelites. I think he
could have acted differently, and g-d didn't have to be so harsh.
Moses also thinks that god shouldn't have been so rash.
The people were just scared that there was no one to worship,
so they made the golden calf for their own sake.
When I get angry, I sometimes just go skate, it lets me be
independent and it helps me calm down. If available, I like to
skate and hangout with my friends.
We usually just ride around town and skate or scooter around
different schools. My friends also have E-bikes, that we ride
around and have fun on.
Being out with my friends also makes me happy, and helps to
lift me up when I’m frustrated. Recently, I learned so many more
tricks on my scooter and skateboard, and I was pretty happy
about that. Going out with friends -- or alone -- just brings me
overall happiness.
Another way I sometimes cope, is I go to my dog Twyla, and lay
or sit with her. She is a pitbull mix. And she is super sweet.
Many people are scared of pitbulls, but not all of them are
harmful. Twyla would never hurt anyone or anything!
For my Mitzvah project, I wanted to help out the homeless and
the less fortunate.
I found an organization called Skate for Change, that helps out
the homeless.
Skate for Change is about riding your skateboard, scooter,
bicycle ect. around town and giving out essentials like clothes,
water, food and more to the less fortunate.
We reached out to them and they were thrilled to find out we
were interested in helping.
As it turns out, Skate for Change is located in Nebraska!
They told us that no one is currently supporting them in the Bay
Area, so I was inspired to get started and before I knew it, a box
of with over 50 socks arrived in the mail, to hand out to the
homeless.
I haven’t gone out yet but I can’t wait!
In conclusion, My torah portion tries to teach us about anger --
and how to deal with anger.
We don’t want to be like g-d and hurt people, we want to find
other ways to deal with our anger.
I would like to appreciate Rabbi Elana and Cantor David for
supporting me so much and making this possible. I’d like to
thank Lisa Bialkin, for teaching me Hebrew and all the blessings
and prayers.
Next, I would like to thank my dad for driving me everywhere
and always being so fun and cool to be with.
I would like to thank my mom for making me breakfast every
morning and helping me in so many ways, and always playing
kedima on the beach with me on Block island!
And thank you to my sister, Summer, for being so fun and
awesome; and my dogTwyla, for being there for me for when
times are tough.
Lastly, I would like to thank YOU for being here in this moment
to celebrate my Bar Mitzvah.
Thank you and Shabot Shalom!